Introduction
Shazam is a harsh but fair GM
With the advent of streamed RPG games, and the subsequent fire lit under the hobby as a whole, as large number of new players has entered the wonderful world of Tabletop RPGs.
This is, naturally, a wonderful thing!
It does also mean there’s tons and tons of new people trying their hand at running games for their friends and family, and they have many questions (some of which don’t really have actual answers, but we will get to that).
In this post I will tell you how I personally do it, in as much detail as my addled brain can manage. I will attempt to give alternatives to my methods where I know them so folks can pick whatever suits them the best. We will also be talking about expectations, and managing them, both for yourself as a GM and for your players.
Above all else remember the immutable rule: “If you’re all having fun, you’re doing it right.”
Gamesmastery is a skill acquired and perfected over many years, but like any skill there is knowledge and ideas you can be given to make learning the craft much faster (and way more fun) than learning everything the hard way!
The Hard Path
This is not you (probably), you may wish it were (or not)
If you are still reading, I am going to assume you either are a GM, aspire to become one, or just want to understand what that weird guy behind the screen at your table is actually doing for you. Good.
Let us begin with a brief aside about GMing styles;
Every GM has their own style, its a unique blend of their own imagination and personality as well as the way they interact with their players and how they run the actual sessions.
Referring back to the introduction; there is no “best style” as an objective standard. If everyone is having a great time, there’s no problem with the style of GMing.
I may sound like I’m repeating myself here, but it’s very important that you understand this.
The handsome man in the picture above is Matthew Mercer of Critical Role, a celebrated DM with thousands of online fans. He’s very good at what he does.
Should you be like Matt?
Absolutely not. Because Matt is Matt and you are you. You have different strengths and weaknesses to play to and mitigate.
Should you learn from Matt?
Absolutely. And not just Matt, absorb information from various GMs who kindly offer their views and techniques in blogs, youtube videos and podcasts. There is no such thing as too much advice in this instance, even if not all of it is useful to you, it’s worth knowing. I will include links to some of my personal favourites at the end of the article.
Being a GM is challenging, but very rewarding. Think of it like hosting a cool party. When the smoke clears and everyone has gone home smiling and laughing, and they talk about it in the week after, you are left with a deep and abiding sense of satisfaction. This is the high we are chasing, and this is why we do it.
As mentioned, it isn’t easy, but it also does not have to be hard.
Let’s get to work.
No fear (mistakes and you)
Don’t be intimidated by all the things mentioned above, it’s important to understand that in any given session of play you will make mistakes.
Maybe you accidentally introduced a subject someone is uncomfortable with (see the safety section), maybe you got the order of some events mixed up or you misunderstood a rule.
That’s ok.
The only thing that matters with mistakes, is how you fix them and what you can learn from them.
General mistakes
You can approach most non-safety related mistakes in the same way. First, evaluate if the players have even noticed and more importantly if the mistake even matters.
If it’s inconsequential for your story and players, just ignore it and proceed.
If it’s something that impacts your fiction or the players directly, my preferred method is:
- Acknowledge the mistake, and explain what went wrong
- If needed or appropriate, either rewind to before the mistake (you can totally do this in many cases, as long as it was recent!) or just adjust the results after the fact (i.e. you misread a rule and did too much/little damage to a character, just adjust it now).
- If option 2 is no longer works, either adjust your fiction to accommodate the new state of things (example: your npc was supposed to teleport out at half HP, but you neglected to do so and they are now dead. Not a problem! Their place will now be taken by a similar (yet distinct!) new NPC that takes their place in the story) -or- if you accidentally really disadvantaged or even killed a player, narrate that they were just knocked out, washed away by the river etc. and have them rejoin the party, undo the harm you did to them, return the item you destroyed etc. No harm, no foul.
- If the mistake has lead you to some irrevocable problem that you can no longer handwave away (you threw a Player Character into lava and everyone saw them burn) it’s probably appropriate to throw the recipient of your mistake a bone and give their new character something cool as an “I’m sorry” (ask them if they want such a thing). Alternatively, ask the players to simply suspend their disbelief and hard retcon it (X never happened). You can do this, because it’s your game.
- Check with your players, if is everyone happy with the new state of the situation you can proceed.
- Don’t feel bad, you learned a thing!
Now when the mistake impacts game safety (again, we will go into detail on this subject in a subsequent post), things may get very unpleasantly complicated and emotions may get high. The tools in the Safety section will greatly help with (preventing) this.
I will however state one important thing to never forget in the event of a safety mistake:
It’s never the fault of the person who has an issue with a subject.
Keep that in mind, and be prepared to enforce it at the table.
There’s a lot of things you can do “wrong” in a session, and the vast majority of them really don’t matter at all and can safely be ignored (your players probably will never even notice).
So don’t be afraid!
Pre-game
This section will explain my process for crafting the start of my campaign for my players. This is certainly not the only way, or even the best way, and largely doesn’t apply to purchased campaigns, but I hope it is at least of interest and/or gives you ideas of your own!
So, you’ve got a game system, you’ve got players, you have a list of things they like and don’t like, you’re ready to start working!
The first thing I do is look at the themes and topics the players have mentioned; generally I place them in tables to help me easily connect the dots:
Step 1: examine the overlap between “does not want” and what others are interested in.
If a player has indicated certain content is not ok with them it will not be in the game at all without discussing it with them, does not matter if someone else does want it.
In this instance we see that Caroline is interested in romance, but Danny absolutely does not want it.
What do we do? Simple, we check with Danny; Is your do not want entirely for yourself, or do you not want to deal with other characters’ romances?
In this case Danny just doesn’t want a romance plot that involves him as one of the parties, but does not mind if someone else has a romance.
Great! We don’t have to stripe off Caroline’s interest in this case, and we did the right thing by checking.
Whether or not you do a check for clarification or just rule it out is a bit of a “feel” thing, I’m not about to ask a player if sexual content is “ok” if it’s someone else, for example.
Step 2: look for matching interests/disinterests
Different players like different things, but when you can match interests across your players these topics are almost certainly going to be a hit when you include them!
Now in this instance a few things pop out at me:
We have two players who are interested in exploring, and one that is interested in mercenary life, something logical here would be to have the two exploring characters hire the mercenary to watch their backs while they go about it; I make a note of this and bring it up at character creation to help build the party.
Now Danny doesn’t particularly care about wilderness exploration, but it looks like he sure loves to beat the tar out of beasties in a dungeon, however two players are not interested in dungeon crawls or combat very much.
Does this mean Danny gets no dungeon or monsters to beat up? No, it does not. It does mean that I will not subject the party to multi-session mega dungeon full of combat encounters.
As a general rule, I will try to put any interest that doesn’t conflict with the safety topics into the game, but I will respect that it’s not everyone’s favourite and keep such content at a reasonable length.
So, we will have bits of dungeon while we explore with a bit of combat in them for Danny, and we will also have the odd political intrigue which Danny doesn’t care for, but we won’t devote entire sessions to either.
You can also look for related interests;
Alfred likes spy stuff, and Caroline is a fan of politics, these things naturally go well together!
This is great, if Caroline has a political problem, Alfred will almost certainly offer his suggestions for espionage to aid her endeavor.
But we can go deeper still…
Danny isn’t particularly interested in politics as mentioned, but he still loves combat so we can get him involved in the gameplay by offering him content that matches his interest and that supports the players’ goals. Perhaps some pesky guards need to be dealt with before Alfred can work his sneaky magic, perhaps a distraction is needed and violence can achieve that.
There are always ways to offer players content, even in situations that are not their preferred type.
Often, players will suggest these ideas to you themselves.
Just say yes and go with it!
Step 3: Try and formulate an outline
Now that your gears are in motions and ideas are starting to form about things you imagine you might see in sessions: stop.
We don’t want to drift off into “what if…” dreamland just yet.
We need a core pitch for our campaign that will excite our players and help them make choices during character creation!
Now, you don’t have to front-load every suggested topic into the pitch or the start of the game.
Here’s what I came up with using the examples above:
“The story will be about agents of various kingdoms venturing into wilds to search through the ruins of <ancient fallen kingdom> in search of lost magic/technology. Your party will BE one of these groups of agents. You will explore the ruins of the former kingdom, and try to learn as much as possible before the agents of <rival country> do so!”
Hopefully, my players’ eyes will light up as the possibilities begin to dance in their brains.
At this stage, I generally think it is time to:
Step 4: Build the party
By this I do not actually mean character generation yet. We do that after, this is where I let my players discuss the makeup of their team and who will do what.
This is (in my personal opinion) a much healthier approach than simply having players show up with their disconnected home-crafting characters that may not fit together well etc.
Note that the degree to which this step is needed varies wildly from game to game. A game like D&D is definitely balanced towards having a mix of certain types of character, whereas indy darling MÖRK BORG is explicitly about rag-tag bands of mismatched misfits doing things together. Keep this in mind and evaluate for yourself!
My players talk it over, and as I had expected Alfred volunteers to play a stealthy roguish character hired to protect Beate and Caroline (who have selected a bookish magic user and an intrepid explorer character respectively) during their mission. Finally Danny (much as was to be expected) gleefully informs the party that he is also a bodyguard; just with none of the subtlety of Alfred, but the strength of arm that is required when things go south.
Step 5: Character generation
My players will now go through whatever character generation the chosen game has, because I have read the game in its entirety, I try not to only guide my players through the process but think with them about what class/features/skills/perks will help them get closest to the character concept.
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Where possible I like to devote an entire session to building the party, making the characters, helping develop backstory etc.
Note that at this stage, I usually don’t actually have a setting created (unless I’m playing something with an implicit setting, like Warhammer Fantasy Roleplay).
What my preferred method here is, is to fill in blanks about the setting using questions I ask the players.
To continue our example, I know nothing about the world, I use this session to learn about it with my players, rather than to describe it to them.
Beate asks what I know about the organization they will be working for, I have no idea so I just throw something out:
“Oh, the royal explorer’s league? Well they were hastily founded after the initial ruins of <fallen kingdom> were found, the ruins contained a power artifact and the King had grave concerns of <hostile kingdom> obtaining these items and using them against us. He put the stern dutchess Mari du Bargot in charge. She’s not very friendly or personable, but her efficiency and accuracy in organization are without peer. Outwardly it’s presented as an exploration effort, but both kingdoms know what’s up”
This will suffice for now, already my own head is spinning at all the NPCs I will need to represent a large government backed organization, but that is a concern for future me…
Danny suggest that perhaps he and Alfred are basically undercover military personnel and I think this is an excellent idea, so now it is truth.
We go on like this for a while until everyone has something of a backstory (remember, backstory is not set in stone! encourage players to add to their character’s history whenever appropriate) and I have a sheet full of notes of the things we discussed to use in my world building.
With this my first session will end, and everyone goes away with their completed character sheet, I encourage them to think about their character, what they are like, how the character presents themselves to others, what they keep secret or are very open about etc. I also tell them I’ll happily receive any new ideas they have about their character via text (it’s free content!).
But why do it this way?
The reason why this is my preferred approach, is that it creates characters that are entwined with their world and each other, before we have even played a single session.
The characters make sense to the world, and the world makes sense to them. They are a part of it.
Experience tells me that players of characters that are well-grounded into the fiction of the world they inhabit are more comfortable, more engaged and more likely to want to know more about the world.
This collective building of parts of the world and the party as a whole also prevents players getting tremendous writing block staring at an empty “Background” box on their sheets with no one to help them.
Shaped like a dialogue, party building becomes a snap as people will volunteer ideas to each other that they (and you!) can use. And for your own benefit you leave the session with a large number of handholds to hang your world building onto, and they will automatically be connected to the players.
